3 Heartbreaking Items to Toss for Better Feng Shui in Your Home

When reorganizing, many focus on whether they enjoy their possessions or if they still bring happiness. However, it's crucial to recognize if any items in your home might be inviting heartbreak. As a Feng Shui consultant, I offer insights on avoiding sadness in your space.

From sentimental photographs to keepsakes, sometimes parting with certain items is essential for your well-being.

3 Items You Should Eliminate When Decluttering

1. Anything Associated with Conflict

green kitchen cabinets with plaster pink walls, original floorboards, door to garden, ornate pink shelf, stool, brass faucet, wall lights, kitchen island with flowers — Your home should evoke calm and tranquility, not reminders of anger or sorrow.

It's logical that aggressive imagery and weaponry can negatively affect your subconscious. Unfortunately, many homes contain these items. I've encountered numerous couples facing relationship issues, and a common theme was the presence of conflict-themed art or weapon displays.

Artwork depicting battles or violence isn't merely unromantic; it can create an underlying sense of danger. This energy can heighten tension, potentially leading to relationship breakdowns, making these items some of the unluckiest to keep.

A client reached out during a rough patch in her 30-year marriage. During a video consultation, I noticed a large photo of soldiers in Iraq above her fireplace. She realized that the issues began when that picture was hung, gifted by an old army friend.

Thankfully, her husband chose her happiness over the photo, and they donated it to a local Reservist base. Sometimes, rebalancing your space is that simple.

Similarly, trends like the fascination with medieval weaponry seen in shows like Game of Thrones may not be suitable for young men's bedrooms, contributing to poor bedroom Feng Shui.

A large double bedroom with a buttoned headboard bed with white bedding, a blue blanket and blue cushions, white walls with colorful framed artwork above the bed, shelves with miscellaneous items such as books, framed pictures and vases, and large windows with shutters. — Prioritize Feng Shui in your bedroom for a restful and harmonious environment.

So, what should replace these items? Consider introducing Feng Shui and Interiors Therapy to cultivate balance in your home. Often, creating a happier environment naturally attracts good fortune.

Reflect on what uplifts you and consider family preferences. Embrace biophilic design, incorporating nature-inspired art, which brings positive energy into your space.

Personally, I favor images that signify growth, like spring trees or vibrant summer scenes, as they radiate warmth and positivity.

Explore images of dream destinations to inspire Feng Shui energy mapping and enhance the energy in your home's Northwest area, which promotes friendship and travel. Alternatively, let chance guide you with a globe.

Stunning abstract art can evoke a meditative state, while pieces like this Gold Leaf Picture available at Amazon symbolize abundance.

When selecting decor, remember that your surroundings reflect your life. Examine the themes in your displayed items and ensure they align with your desires. If not, replace them with pieces that inspire joy.

Includes hardware

"Evening In Green Forest"
Bring the outdoors inside with this stunning artwork featuring a sunlit forest.

Great value

Annova Antique Globe
This affordable antique-style globe adds elegance to any room.

Gorgeous gift idea

Berstuk Wooden Flower Press
Create beautiful keepsakes from your favorite blooms.

2. Pictures or Statues of Single Women

terracotta living room, color drenched walls, window and skirting, hardwood floor, marble fire surround, artwork, round coffee table, two wood upholstered armchairs, vases, side table, Farrow & Ball — Select vibrant artwork that promotes positivity instead of lonely themes.

I've observed a trend among clients who feel lonely or are single by circumstance: numerous depictions of solitary women in their decor.

One client realized she had 76 solitary female images across her home, ranging from art to small items. This extends to decor like individual candles or isolated souvenirs. In Feng Shui, this emphasis on solitude reinforces the idea that being alone is the norm, pushing away the energy of a loving relationship.

Count how many single items you have. It can be quite revealing.

One aspect of Feng Shui I appreciate is utilizing 'couple energy' to foster connection. Instead of one lamp or cushion, opt for pairs. Choose art that features duos, whether they are animals or objects, as long as they bring you joy.

Be cautious; select subjects that face each other or are united, avoiding those that suggest separation, often termed a 'divorce house' theme.

Our eyes naturally appreciate symmetry, and introducing 'togetherness' can open you to new connections. Even before a partnership forms, you'll enjoy the balance in your life.

Position couple-themed art in the bedroom and in the Southwest area of your home, which represents love in the Feng Shui energy map. If you're aiming for new beginnings, place pairs in the west to symbolize fresh opportunities.

3. Keepsakes

A bedroom with patterned wallpaper, a yellow patterned bedside table with a grey ceramic lamp with white lampshade, and large bed with duck egg blue headboard with bedpost, white bedding, a chartreuse throw, and yellow and blue cushions — Release sentimental items that no longer bring joy.

If you're sentimental, you likely possess mementos from cherished moments. However, you may also retain reminders of painful relationships.

Old love letters, photographs, gifts, and even wedding attire after a divorce can be detrimental to your happiness. These items emphasize absence and can trigger painful memories.

Revisiting these experiences doesn't serve your well-being. Holding onto the energy of past relationships can hinder your chances of finding a worthy partner, often leading to repeating past mistakes.

So, how do you create a joyful Feng Shui home?

dining room with round mahogany table, vase of flowers, teal matching custom storage in alcoves each side of fireplace, artwork above fireplace, globe chandelier — Letting go of negative memories prevents stagnant energy. Keep your home fresh and inviting.

First, be ruthless. Remove anything related to relationships that ended poorly, including photos and gifts. This process can shift your perspective, reminding you of their less appealing traits and freeing you from emotional ties.

Once you've cleared out painful reminders, you'll find joy in the sentimental items that remain. When your space is filled with items that spark happiness, life feels much brighter. Recognizing your blessings transforms your home into a sanctuary for self-care.

Opt for attractive storage, like the Homezone Natural Handwoven Seagrass Basket available at Walmart, to store your cherished items safely.

From a Feng Shui standpoint, the East is the ideal location for keeping sentimental pieces. Store them in a closet for access when needed, while keeping them out of sight otherwise.

Eight patterns